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Girl…Call Me with Tanya and Jessica is where real conversations happen. Unfiltered, heartfelt, and rooted in the shared experience of being Black women navigating a world that often misunderstands us. Born from those “girl, call me” moments when you just need someone who gets it, this podcast is a space for reflection, release, and reimagining what wellness, joy, and community mean.
Now in Season Four, Tanya and Jessica continue showing up with honesty and humor, tackling everything from impostor syndrome and stress to joy, boundaries, and building community in uncertain times. They delve into health, culture, identity, and the systems that shape our lives, while creating space for laughter, storytelling, and collective care.
Whether it’s a deep dive or a vent session, every episode is a reminder that you’re not alone and that we deserve to be well-supported and heard.
Episodes

Jun 3, 2026
Jun 3, 2026
39 min
This week, Tanya and Jessica discuss Pride Month, community, and the power of hearing perspectives beyond our own. From Tanya’s experience at a Black expat brunch in San Miguel de Allende to conversations about Gayle King, Lizzo, Serena Williams, Naomi Osaka, Jay-Z, and the evolving world of podcasting, they explore what happens when we move beyond our usual circles and stay curious about other people’s experiences.
Plus, they’re issuing a challenge: listen to a podcast hosted by someone who doesn’t look like you, live like you, or think like you. You might be surprised by what you learn.
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We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
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- Follow on Facebook: @girl.callmepodcast
- Join our YouTube Channel: @PodcastGirlCallMe

May 27, 2026
May 27, 2026
50 min
What parts of your personality are truly you, and what parts were built through survival, adaptation, and the pressure to perform?
In this episode, Tanya and Jessica reflect on a powerful conversation inspired by Michelle Obama and Keke Palmer about identity, hyper-functioning, emotional labor, and what it means to live fully as Black women navigating ambition, visibility, relationships, and change. The conversation moves from social media and public personas to friendship, career evolution, entrepreneurship, softness, boundaries, and the tension between who the world thinks you are and who you actually are in quiet moments.
They also unpack the difference between capability and desire, why so many women become “the capable one,” and how expansion in this season of life may look less like doing more and more like becoming more honest about what you truly need.
It is funny, reflective, vulnerable, and deeply real, exactly the kind of conversation that reminds you that growth is not always loud.
**Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee! Your support helps us keep the convo real, the mics on, and the vibes strong. https://coff.ee/podcastgirg
We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
- Follow on Instagram: podcast.girlcallme
- Follow on Facebook: @girl.callmepodcast
- Join our YouTube Channel: @PodcastGirlCallMe

May 20, 2026
May 20, 2026
50 min
We’re re-releasing one of our most needed conversations:
News Overload, Anxiety and Protecting Your Peace in Chaotic Times.
How do you protect your peace when the world feels nonstop, chaotic, and emotionally exhausting?
In this episode, Tanya and Jessica discuss news overload, anxiety, therapy, stress, hypervigilance, and how constant chaos affects our nervous systems. They reflect on politics, media consumption, emotional awareness, and the importance of boundaries, rest, laughter, friendship, and joy.
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed by the state of the world and trying to figure out how to stay informed without losing yourself, this conversation is for you.
In this episode:
news overload, anxiety, therapy, cortisol, mental health, self-care, nervous system care, emotional awareness, boundaries, friendship, politics, media, and finding joy in hard times.
**Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee! Your support helps us keep the convo real, the mics on, and the vibes strong. https://coff.ee/podcastgirg
We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
- Follow on Instagram: podcast.girlcallme
- Follow on Facebook: @girl.callmepodcast
- Join our YouTube Channel: @PodcastGirlCallMe

May 13, 2026
May 13, 2026
48 min
This week, Tanya and Jessica zigzag from Spirit Airlines chaos to WNBA preseason, the Met Gala, Michelle Obama, Megan Thee Stallion, and the deeply specific trauma of being trapped in a middle seat on a five-hour flight.
But underneath the jokes, they unpack something bigger: what it means to move through the world in a body that is constantly asked to shrink itself.
From theater seats and blood pressure cuffs to amusement park weight limits, awkward robe sizes, and the emotional calculus of taking up “too much” room, the conversation gets real about visibility, shame, comfort, and learning to advocate for yourself without apology.
This episode is for anybody who has ever:
• made themselves smaller to keep others comfortable
• overthought a seat, a chair, a robe, or a room
• apologized for existing in their full form
• forgotten they deserve space too
Shoulders back. Butt back. Don’t shrink.
**Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee! Your support helps us keep the convo real, the mics on, and the vibes strong. https://coff.ee/podcastgirg
We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
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- Join our YouTube Channel: @PodcastGirlCallMe

Apr 22, 2026
Apr 22, 2026
52 min
Tanya and Jessica are back after a short break, and the conversation lands somewhere real: what does it actually mean to be seen, and does visibility even work the same way for Black women?
The spark is Emma Grede's recent comments about showing up in person as the path to advancement. They have thoughts. So does the data on the hundreds of thousands of Black women who lost jobs in recent months while doing everything right.
The episode moves into community, the whiplash of Monday morning after a weekend in spaces that actually receive you, and Jessica's genuinely good take on where women of color are headed in the next decade of work.
Also: Lamar Odom gets the inaugural Loser Ass Takes award, and Tanya has opinions about cruises.
**Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee! Your support helps us keep the convo real, the mics on, and the vibes strong. https://coff.ee/podcastgirg
We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
- Follow on Instagram: podcast.girlcallme
- Follow on Facebook: @girl.callmepodcast
- Join our YouTube Channel: @PodcastGirlCallMe

Apr 8, 2026
Apr 8, 2026
45 min
This week on Girl…Call Me with Tanya and Jessica, we're diving headfirst into the stories that had the timeline talking.
From Trick Daddy and the AKA conference controversy to space skincare and Commander Glover's viral glow, from March Madness chaos to WNBA excitement, this episode is hot topics, hot mess headlines, and cultural commentary that earns its place in your feed.
We unpack what happens when entertainment collides with institutional spaces, why everyone suddenly had opinions about moisturizer in orbit, and how women's basketball keeps earning more conversation than it gets credit for.
Some stories are hot topics. Some are a hot mess. And some are somehow both.
**Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee! Your support helps us keep the convo real, the mics on, and the vibes strong. https://coff.ee/podcastgirg
We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
- Follow on Instagram: podcast.girlcallme
- Follow on Facebook: @girl.callmepodcast
- Join our YouTube Channel: @PodcastGirlCallMe

Mar 18, 2026
Mar 18, 2026
53 min
Tanya and Jessica are back with an episode that moves from relationship dynamics to red carpet fashion to Selection Sunday and finds the same conversation beneath it all.
They start close to home: attachment theory, friendship dynamics, and what it looks like to stay in honest communication when relationships get complicated. Then they shift to the Oscars 2025 recap, including red carpet fashion, award show disappointments, and why subjectivity in entertainment almost always reflects something bigger than taste.
From there, it's March Madness predictions, the rise of women's basketball, and a real conversation about whose excellence gets recognized and why.
If you've ever felt like the institutions weren't built with you in mind, this episode names that directly and talks about what to do with it.
In this episode: attachment theory and relationships, Oscars 2025 recap, red carpet fashion, bias in entertainment and media, March Madness 2025, women's basketball, representation, Black culture, and creating spaces on your own terms.
**Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee! Your support helps us keep the convo real, the mics on, and the vibes strong. https://coff.ee/podcastgirg
We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
- Follow on Instagram: podcast.girlcallme
- Follow on Facebook: @girl.callmepodcast
- Join our YouTube Channel: @PodcastGirlCallMe

Feb 25, 2026
Feb 25, 2026
59 min
In this episode, we unpack reality TV culture, our guilty pleasure shows, and what they reveal about us as viewers. From the new America’s Next Top Model documentary to shows like Love Is Blind, Love After Lockup, Teen Mom, Biggest Loser, and Cops, we ask the uncomfortable question: Did reality TV normalize exploitation, and why were we so willing to watch?
We revisit the most chaotic and problematic reality TV moments, talk about escapism versus harm, and debate whether reality TV has evolved or just moved to social media.
If you love smart pop culture commentary, honest conversations about media, and a little self-reflection with your laughs, this episode is for you.
Tell us your secret reality TV guilty pleasure, follow the show, and leave a review so more listeners can join the conversation.
**Enjoying the show? Buy us a coffee! Your support helps us keep the convo real, the mics on, and the vibes strong. https://coff.ee/podcastgirg
We invite you to become part of our community. If you have questions for our hosts or want to suggest a topic for the show, please email us at podcast.girlcallme@gmail.com
- Website: www.girlcallme.com
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Jessica your co-host
A genuine communicator is at the heart of every profound conversation, and Jessica exemplifies this essence. A seasoned communications strategist, Jessica's commitment to her craft is only paralleled by her dedication to meaningful causes. Throughout her two-decade-long career, Jessica has been a steadfast ally to numerous organizations across diverse sectors. Her involvement spans from public media and housing to pressing healthcare issues, disease advocacy, and the crucial domains of membership associations, community development, and early childhood education.
Jessica's reputation precedes her as a changemaker—a visionary who doesn't just conceptualize strategies but transforms them into actionable realities. Her unique ability to harness and optimize talent has seen organizations transition from mere aspirations to tangible accomplishments. The recipe for success is straightforward for Jessica: a robust strategy underpinned by an exceptional team.
Currently residing on the West Coast in Los Angeles, Jessica embraces new experiences alongside her husband, always seeking the next opportunity to make a difference and inspire others. Join her on the "Girl...Call Me" podcast as she, alongside her esteemed co-host, delves deep into the multifaceted realm of Black women's health and addresses their everyday challenges with grace, insight, and unwavering commitment.

Tanya your co-host
Beyond her role as a podcast co-host, Tanya's life is a testament to resilience, leadership, and profound expertise.
Tanya's professional journey spans over two decades, marking her as a seasoned fundraiser and event strategist of the highest order. Her transformative impact resonates across multi-million-dollar organizations, where she has been instrumental in reshaping culture, programs, and financial trajectories.
Her expansive leadership canvas encompasses strategic planning, program development, and fundraising. Her prowess in metrics-based performance outcomes, partnership development, and event planning is matched only by her acumen in marketing, public relations, board leadership, and compliance in nonprofit and for-profit realms.
Tanya resides outside Los Angeles with two fur babies and her wife, Jennifer.
On the "Girl…Call Me" podcast, Tanya will intertwine her professional acumen with her heartfelt passion for advocacy. Diving deep into the intricacies of Black women's health and challenges, Tanya Johnson is a connector channeling her knowledge, empathy, and advocacy. Through her conversations, Tanya invites listeners to embrace and understand the nuanced experiences of Black women, fostering a space of learning, reflection, and solidarity.
